At LoversVow, we strive to make online dating a little easier and safer. That is why we take the following steps:
Every new profile upon registration
All user data end-to-end
Actively block suspicious accounts
The following steps can help increase your safety when interacting with others through dating websites, apps, and services—whether virtually or in person. Like any safety advice, these tips are not a guarantee, but they may help you feel more secure.
Be cautious about what photos and videos you share with strangers. Scammers often look for compromising material they can use for blackmail.
If the person you matched with has no bio and only one photo, it may be a fake account. Use caution before connecting with someone you know so little about.
You can block or report another user if their profile seems suspicious or if they behave inappropriately. This can often be done anonymously, before or after matching. As with any personal interaction, people can misrepresent themselves. Trust your instincts about whether someone is being truthful.
Scammers often use certain stories or behaviors to build trust and sympathy. Below are a few common examples:
You may want to report a user who:
Once you have matched and chatted with someone, consider scheduling a video chat before meeting in person. This helps confirm they are who they claim to be. If they strongly resist a video call, that may be a sign of suspicious activity.
We strongly recommend that you:
Never give personal information to someone you haven't met in person, including your:
Take a screenshot of your date's profile and send it to a friend. Let at least one friend know when and where you plan to go. If your date moves to an unplanned location, text a friend your new location. You may also want to arrange a check-in text or call midway through the date or when you get home.
You should always be in control of your own transportation to and from the date. This allows you to leave whenever you want without relying on your date, especially if you feel uncomfortable. Even if your date offers to pick you up, avoid getting into a vehicle with someone you don't yet know and trust—particularly on a first meeting.
Keep several ride-share apps downloaded on your phone. If one isn't working, you'll have a backup. Ensure you have mobile data available and a fully charged phone. Consider bringing your charger or a portable battery.
There's nothing wrong with having a few drinks on a date. However, know your limits and don't feel pressured to drink just because your date is drinking. It is also wise to avoid taking drugs before or during a first date with someone new. Drugs can alter your perception of reality or have unexpected interactions with alcohol.
If you feel uncomfortable, trust that feeling. You are free to leave a date or cut off communication with anyone who makes you feel unsafe. Do not worry about seeming rude, your safety is what matters most. A respectful date will understand.
If you felt uncomfortable or unsafe during a date, remember you can always unmatch, block, or report that person afterward. This will prevent them from accessing your profile in the future.